it is so much easier to believe the bad then the good. someone tells you that you are average. you will accept that as a truth. someone times you that you are great, somehow its hard to believe. this is frustrating. that the negative can rule our thoughts and weigh us down. man oh man. its a heavy weight to try to get rid of sometimes. people will have their opinions. it happens, people will always have something to say. something to think. brush it off. thats an art: the art of the brush off. how to let it all slide and say 'you can think that. and i will still do what i do to be positive and succeed'. in the end. its all going to end (this sounds horrible..but i'm not intending it to). we all just need to have fun. brush it off. love and laugh. we will not always succeed. there will be failure, more then we would like. cry it off. watch a movie. then start goals, start to laugh, and start to enjoy. the days are to short. life is to short. to not let go off all the bad...take a deep breathe and see how fun this all is.